words of wisdom

Seriously, Child Molesters should be shot like dogs in front of people. No other penalty would serve well as just killing them. Its not only about molestation, thats just the beginning of a disastrous future for a child. I am frustrated, full of hatred. I will serve jail time murdering them than just staring at whats going on. Even more pathetic is when this combines with a broken family. Even the thought of it is killing me how would it be when someone experiences this and far more?
What made me think like this so suddenly? Well its a long story here it goes:

There is a friend of mine who I do not want to disclose his name who lives in Sri Lanka. Yesterday he got so emotional and he just wanted to let out all his sorrows as he couldn’t take it anymore therefore he started to tell his story and struggles.

When he was 10 years old someone close to his family has come to his house to rent out a room for few years. Someone the family trusted so much. But later it seems his intentions were different. He started to molest my friend who was 10 at that time. Since he was 10 he didn’t understand what was going on. He felt trapped, confused, its taboo to speak out so he kept quiet. It was continued for few years and eventually the molester left somewhere else don’t know where! It was just the beginning for my friend for the endless emotional struggles and confusions he had to face by himself. He did not know who to trust, whom to speak too, he felt if he tells his parents he would be looked down and he has been developing hatred all along just putting a smiling face to the outside world.
Now he is almost 20 but the hatred has changed to something else. He easily gets angry with people. He wants people to listen his way or he gets heart broken. If someone just casually says well I need to go home, I have stuff to do talk to you later he thinks that people don’t like him and tries to ignore him! How pathetic is that!

To add more into this he has a broken family. He says that his family is not attached to him therefore he doesn’t know what parental love is all about. He was adopted when he was born but brought back when he was 10 by his parents. His parents fight a lot at home. His father seems to be very abusive. I just couldn’t take anymore!

How can one person go through all of this while we complain on the smallest things possible? Its hard even to listen to this. You see these things on TV and on movies. But you never think it would happen to a friend who has been supportive to you all way through! I cannot believe it.

But he said while he was 18/19 I don’t know when exactly, there was a friend of his who he felt like telling this story and opened up to him and that friend has listened to him and being so supportive for him helping him out and trying to figure out a brand new chapter in his life. He said that’s when I got parental love. That’s the first time someone listened to me and talked to him openly and that felt so good. Parental love through a friend. And they emotionally, psychologically and even physically bonded with each other. But he is still in the journey and struggle of finding who he really is. What his sexual orientation is, because he also has a girl friend who again is very supportive towards him but her parents are very objective towards their relationship. He loves her so much but he doesn’t know where to go next!

Man I don’t know what to say. What a story, what a struggle, what a journey. A guy who is living through all of this and still manages to put on a happy face. Bravo!
I cant imagine how we complain for the slightest thing possible while there are many people going through the most horrible phases of life! I just don’t understand this world!

How could someone get the mind to molest a kid? A kid is so young, innocent and doesn’t know what is good or bad. How could one possibly take advantage of that? Its just nasty! That’s why I say molesters should be shot and no other penalty would pay the price. When one is shot then eventually the others will back off. It’s a kid for god sakes!

And again broken families should first thing go counseling. Life doesn’t work that way. You guys can fight the hell you want but don’t have kids if you do so. You don’t know how much a kid suffers through that. Its just hard. Even the thought of that is hard but how can u go through ti without anybody to support u. Please for god sakes think about the innocent mind of a kid!

What did it do to deserve hell on earth! Please guys change and help to make the world a better place!
If any of your friends or relatives are going through some sort of abuse please help them please do! They need it. Dont feel shy and scared. Helping out someone in this situation i the first step is eliminating future abusers, drug addicts and murderers.
And on a last note. Be happy with what you have! People are going through the worst in life compared to you. So consider your self lucky and dont complain! And if you feel like complaining try to change it or just keep quiet!