words of wisdom

As all of you know or realised by now that life is a cycle. One day you are Happy and the other day you are Sad, one day rich and the other day poor, one day is filled with love and passion and the other is just anger and depression! Its all a cycle you never know what will happen next or as a human have the ability to magically turn it around!

I have been going through alot of hardships lately and other than complaining about it and saying how could this happen to me I also rant about how it was becuase of this person I am feelign down and only becuase of that person I feel so depressed! I just blame it on everybody else saying they were responsible for what I am going through today and the only thign I did was the right thing! But I think a few events that happened to me within the course of this week enlightened me alot! I should say alot! I dont know If I have put it in practice but I know one thing for sure I have started to take my life through that path!

And what is this path? YOU are responsible for what you go through your life! Maybe its the smallest thing you did and you totally forget about or its the biggest blunder you ever did. Its all you! YOU AND YOU! Sometimes the smallest things you do bring the biggest disasters and the biggest thing you do bring the smallest of all disasters.. But thats not my point. Anything you go through is all becuase of you! Dont blame it on others! You are responsible for your own actions not others!

Another lesson I learnt was stop revolving about the negative aspects of life. The losses in life. The pain in life. The more you revolve around them the more you are going to be suffering throughout it without an end. And the more you revolve around sadness the more sadness you are going to experience. Not the other way around! Being negative about things and complaining about things or crying over what had happened is not going to do any good! MOVE ON! Look at what you have not what you dont have. Maybe you dont have what someone else has but at the same time theres so many people out there who are way more happy with the fraction of what you have!

So heres the deal! Be positive! Be happy! Even if sad thigns keep on happening take it as a challenge and dela with it and work hard to get over it rather than complaining! To finish off I think this quote has so much meaning to it:

“OBSTACLES ARE WHAT YOU SEE WHEN YOU TAKE YOUR EYES OFF YOUR GOAL”